The Test is Positive

Perhaps you already have taken a home pregnancy test and it was positive. It could be that you are not really pregnant. We recommend that you visit our center to get a urine pregnancy test, and possibly an ultrasound exam to confirm you are really pregnant.

We provide a laboratory quality urine test free of charge as a service to women. A trained pregnancy center mentor can provide additional information relevant to your situation. All of our services are free and confidential. We can also help you confirm your pregnancy with a doctor who doesn't do abortions.

For the best medical input on abortion we recommend you speak with a medical professional that has nothing to gain from your abortion decision. We can refer or provide you with a free confidential ultrasound exam from which the doctor can confirm pregnancy and answer your medically related questions. This non-diagnostic ultrasound can tell you approximately how many weeks you are into the pregnancy. This service, provided by a certified sonographer, may aid you in making this important decision. Learn more about what a preborn child looks like: 

Should you discover that you are actually pregnant, you do have many choices. The following pages on our site will give you more information on your options:

Three Women. Three Choices.

Some of us at Life Choices Center have faced unplanned pregnancies ourselves. Our stories are different than yours, of course, but we have faced similar challenges and felt some of the same pressures and fears.

No matter what your situation, you can always find a listening ear and caring support here. You do not have to face this decision alone.

Below are stories from three women who work at Life Choices Center. Names have been changed to protect their privacy.

Jennifer: I chose to parent.

I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant. I guess I was in denial at first. But then more days went by and my period still didn't come. I didn't know what to do. I was in nursing school at the time and there were doctors at my school who told me they could "take care of it." I knew they meant an abortion, and it scared me to think that someone would tell me that even though it was illegal back then. I knew that my family and my boyfriend would not be happy about it, but I didn't want to have an abortion. I wanted to have the baby. Two months later I married my baby's father. Three weeks after that, he left me. So I had no one. My parents were very helpful, but during the pregnancy they pressured me to place the baby for adoption. I guess everyone was thinking about what they thought was best for me. But as soon as my son was born, it was like a miracle -- everyone's mind was changed and they were glad I kept the baby. And so was I. I believe there is a bond between baby and mother quite early in conception. It becomes yours. Being a single mom wasn't easy. I know that God really sustained me through that time because I didn't have anyone else. And I never had any doubt that I made the right decision to keep my son.

Christine: I chose adoption.

I was 17 when I learned I was pregnant. I felt total fear. I was raised in a very strict religious home, and you just didn't go out and get pregnant. It was a bad, bad thing then. I was so scared. I had a fiance but he left me. I had to leave school and stay home with my parents. They told me they couldn't take care of the baby and neither could I. At first I agreed with them, but when the baby was born I went through a lot of emotional turmoil and I wanted to keep him. However, I ended up signing the adoption papers. It's been many years and there's not a single day that goes by that I don't think about him. It was so, so hard, and I miss him a lot. But I know that for my son it was the best decision. I was not prepared to be a mother. I thought I was. But soon after he was born I had two other children, and I made a lot of mistakes with them. I was just too young. Some girls are more mature at that age and others are not. For some people, I believe adoption really is the best decision they can make for their child.

Sue: I chose abortion

When I got pregnant my husband and I were having a lot of problems. I waited until almost the end of my first trimester, half hoping that things would work out and we could have the baby. But things didn't work out, and I thought abortion was the best solution for my problem. In a way, it did take care of the problem. I wasn't pregnant anymore. Afterwards, I thought I was fine. I didn't have any major physical problems. But I wasn't fine. The abortion affected me deeper and longer than I ever could have imagined. One of the worst effects was with my daughter who was born three years after my abortion. Until she was a teenager I wasn't able to connect with her. I even hated her at times. Now that I have found healing and freedom from that abortion, my daughter and I have a great relationship. But it took a long time to get there. Too long. If I had known all that would result from my abortion, I never would have made that choice.

Below is a message from a friend of our organization who chose abortion. Perhaps it will provide you with some heartfelt information about how that choice can affect your future.

I'm not a medical doctor or a counselor -- just a woman who chose abortion and lives today without that child in my life. Truly if there was one thing I could go back and undo in my life, it would be that abortion. I was 19 years of age and in college. I had all the wrong reasons and my boyfriend wasn't supportive of a life decision -- he insisted on the abortion. While my head said abortion was the eraser to my mistake, my heart knew the truth because I had already connected to my unborn child. Had my boyfriend been supportive, I would probably have not aborted but I will never know. You have a true choice, more than I did and that provides a great deal of freedom. And I'm glad you are seeking answers to your questions before you abort.

First of all, abortion has an extreme amount of emotional, physical, psychological and spiritual consequences. The fact that 43% of all women have experienced abortion is a good reference (www.agi-usa.org - The Alan Guttmacher Institute, "Facts in Brief: Induced Abortion," 2000). If nearly half of all women have had abortions, why is it that you never hear any of them sharing about their experiences?

I know from talking to thousands of post-abortive women that the shame and grief keeps them from sharing. We expect judgment from most. Many of us never allowed ourselves to actually grieve our lost children until years afterwards when we couldn't erase the memory of the child from our hearts. While we may have initially felt relief, the forever pain of being the mothers of dead children has long outlasted any initial relief.

If you are pregnant then you are already a mother. This fact is done. By the time you discover you are pregnant, your child is almost formed with arms, legs, eyes, fingers, toes, etc. To learn more about his/her development and to see what he/she looks like, visit  . The only thing your child needs to do is get a little bigger.

But regardless of being already formed, she/he has already bonded with you internally. She/He is dependent on you already. You can reject them -- that's your legal right -- but you will never forget them. She/He can feel pain now and will feel tremendous pain when she/he is aborted. That is one fact that I still have trouble living with -- and cry even now at the memory of the pain my child went through so I could live my life the way I wanted. There are thousands of tears on my pillow for my child -- whom I later named Jesse -- and I will never hold him this side of heaven. At least you will know more than I did when I made that choice. By the way, Jesse would be turning 22 soon. You never forget ..

If you break up with your boyfriend, keep in mind that the man you want to marry will probably need to know you have had an abortion. One of the unexpected consequences of abortion was the fear that the man I wanted to marry wouldn't want me because I was post-abortive. I was filled with fear and eventually ran full throttle into a promiscuous lifestyle. I smoked pot every day to suppress the memories of the abortion experience itself -- a horribly painful process that put me into physical shock. When a nice man wanted to date me I ran the other way because I felt he wouldn't want me with this in my past. Finally I met a man whom I loved and trusted and I knew there was a possibility that he would love me anyway. Thankfully he did and we have enjoyed many long years of marriage.

I can share with you about my own inability to get pregnant after Jesse's death as well. I never realized that the abortion could make me unable to have a baby. Not only can women die during abortion procedures, but they can also be hurt incredibly. Why don't you hear of these deaths? Because their family members don't want to admit the person had an abortion. My doctor believed that my infertility was due to an incomplete abortion. Pieces of my child remained in my body and eventually blocked my fallopian tubes. I had to tell my husband that I might not get pregnant because of my abortion. That was my worst fear.

However, God intervened and through a procedure they were able to unblock my tubes. I was pregnant 10 days later. But 16 weeks into the pregnancy I felt a sharp stab of pain and then began to hemorrhage. We later discovered that this was also possibly due to my abortion. The abortion had weakened my uterine lining and the placenta had torn away - a condition called "placenta previa." This is common in post-abortive women and could have caused me to bleed to death. The doctor said that either I would miscarry or the placenta would re-attach. Thankfully my baby survived.

When they placed this child in my arms I was overwhelmed with emotion. The love I felt towards him was totally unexpected. He was my son and part of me. I never expected those emotions. That was when my aborted child started to haunt me. It took me three years to finally come to a point where I could acknowledge Jesse to my heart and accept his death, at my hands, and mourn him. I was finally able to come to some peace but there isn't a day that goes by when I don't miss Jesse.

This center can help you in a variety of ways -- for free! They can do everything to support you from providing maternity clothes, helping with insurance, baby clothes and furniture, etc. All your dreams can still come true so you can have a hope for your future. They want to help. Call them today.